It scares me, how brief those
moments are. Moments that don’t even last long enough for me to let my guard
down and fully comprehend the magic in them. Moments, that despite their
abruptness or insignificance in the grand scheme of things, resonate loudly within
my cognizance and linger for decades in the darkened corners of my
consciousness, glowing within every now and then whenever my mind strays in a
mundane meeting or in those moments of quiet contemplation. I crave those
moments because they revive me from the numbness that I am consumed by.
My best friend and I sat at
“Thinn Ruhh Park” one cold night, chilled by a slight drizzle, watching streaks
of lightening slice open the sky above Villingili. Lightning and thunder,
phenomena that used to frighten me to my very core, they thrill me now. I
welcomed that thrill that day. It crept up the sides of my face and disappeared
into my scalp, leaving a trail of tingling skin. I felt no cold. I felt no
fear. Only exhilaration.
A tiny hand in mine and a warm
little head resting on my chest, low breathing and soft skin that comforts my
own. I sat on the sofa watching Ponyo while he lay asleep in my lap, finally
quiet. I nibbled at his cheeks and cuddled his chubby little frame. Few things
in life feel that pure and comforting.
I lay on a beach one warm
afternoon, komorebi on my skin, shades over my eyes, iPod in hand and a soul
sister beside me. Erykah Badu and Stephen Marley’s “In love with you” crooned
in my ear while I watched the sunlight gleaming in the liquid horizon. Of all
the beaches and all the afternoons I lay on them, this one stands out because
in that instant, I completely forgot the world. Completely.
Great tales and excellent
television, they make me forget all the horrors of this world. Fantasy, in
particular. I tend to immerse myself in them, blocking out the white noise that
surrounds me. In all honesty, I feel more alive when I’m watching One Piece or
Game of Thrones than I do when I’m among people. I engage, I laugh and I am
present in that moment when I am with people but a rather large chunk of my
consciousness is numb. But not when I’m reading a good book or watching a good
show. They rouse the part of me that feels anesthetized.
One night, a friend and i jogged
in that would be industrial zone, venturing further inside simply for the hell
of it, my paranoia escalating whenever I saw a group of men huddled in the
dark. I have a very unhealthy fear of being groped or worse, which I assure
you, are for valid reasons. Anyway, we came upon this area of dug earth that
was glowing a vivid red from the streetlights on our left. What caught our eyes
wasn’t the colour but the pool of water surrounded by those jagged and sharp
mounds of red earth much like the terrain of Mars, as shown in movies. It lay
pristine and glistening with the reflection of the stars above us. And so we
stood at the edge of a world and gazed into the abyss, mesmerized. Far away
from here.
I love rain. I truly do. And I
like to drive around after it rains. The chill in the air, the sensation of
raindrops on my skin and the vivid green of trees after a shower, they make me
smile. I feel a static crackling inside me when it rains, like I am tuned to
the sound of falling water. After sundown, the puddles reflect the neon signs
on store windows. Sometimes I stand still and look at them and feel my brain
flare up. A few weeks ago I walked home in the rain after a particularly brutal
day and somehow, I wound up frozen on the pavement, transfixed by the reflected
lights. Red, white and green. For a brief few seconds, I felt my body come
alive and within that period, I felt consoled.
Conversations. Contradictions.
Laughter. The feel of soft silky hair between my fingers. The image of eyes
that crinkle in the corner. The sensation of hands that cradle my face and
stroke my hair. The feel of eager lips on mine, soft and absolving. And the
amber of the fairy lights that encase and warm us during these moments, they
revive me.
And as short lived as they are,
as few and far between as they may be, those moments leave a significant
impression. Perhaps I perceive them to be more extraordinary than they really
are. Perhaps the certainty of an expiration date makes all of it seem more
wonderful than it really is. Perhaps it is simply what Homer stated, that
everything is more beautiful because we are doomed. Perhaps that is all it is.
I don’t really care.
Because those moments in life that
create an impact on my subconscious are rare. And those moments, those brief
glitches in time and space that actually allow me to rid my mind of my truth
and all that it entails, they make me feel alive. And i would do anything to
feel alive.